Whether it’s a grandparent, aunt or uncle, mom or dad, at some point most adults will have to face a dilemma regarding the best interests of an elderly family member, or even a neighbor. If you have recently noticed deterioration in the mental or physical health of an older person close to you, or have been worried by an accident or injury, then you may now be in a position where you have to make tough decisions about what the best thing to do next is. While it may seem like there aren’t that many options, in fact, the obvious, but often unpleasant matter of whether or not someone would be better off in a nursing home will not, in most cases, be the only path open to you.
Here are some of the ways people make sure their elderly relatives or friends are safe when they can’t live alone anymore:
For most people, nursing homes, hospices or other forms of residential care are a last resort when no other options are satisfactory anymore. This is because it can be very expensive, and because a lot of older people don’t like the idea of moving into residential care and it can be upsetting for the whole family. However, this isn’t the case for every family, and in some cases the move can be quite a pleasant experience, allowing the family to rest assured that their relative will get all of the supervision and care they need, and the older person accepting that it is for the best and enjoying the prospect of having company.
Living With a Family Member
In many families, when the time comes for long term living arrangements for elderly people to be taken into account, the best solution is either for them to move in with their children, or for a member of the family to go and live with them and take care of them. This can often be a good solution, because it keeps the cost of care down and means that the elderly person can be around people they know and trust. However, having somebody else move into your home, even somebody very close to you like a parent, can change a lot of things in your life, especially when they need a lot of care and attention.
A Health Care Assistant or Nurse
If your relative or neighbor doesn’t need care on a 24/7 basis, but does need help with a lot of things, then a good option can be to hire a professional nurse or healthcare assistant to come and tend to them each day. Home care services will not be as costly as a residential solution and may be covered by insurance. A home aide will be able to do things like help the person get clean and dressed, prepare their food, run errands for them, administer their medication and take care of things around the home, as well as providing some often much needed company. This is an option if you have someone who still has their mental faculties but has mobility problems or other health issues that require close supervision. This can often be the option the elderly person prefers as they retain their home, their independence and their routine.
Jennifer Wesley, the author of this guest post, is a part time blogger and a part of Family Private Care team. She is a kindhearted person and likes to help others. She often spends her free time by swimming or skiing.
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