When you’re in a loving relationship, part of the unwritten agreement is that you’re both going to try to work to make the other one happy. This involves acts of servitude such as tidying up after yourself occasionally or walking to meet them at the station, but it also involves smaller and more personal things.
For one, it’s nice if you can try and look your best for your partner whenever possible, and particularly to try and wear the things that you know they particularly like. The question though, is how do you go about finding out what they like and making it work with your own style and your own tastes?
The first thing to do is to talk openly with your man about what he likes, and to ask his opinion on your clothes. Most men will be too polite or worried about your feelings to just volunteer when they don’t like what you’re wearing, or when they wish you’d wear something else, so you need to be direct and create an environment where it’s okay to be honest. You may well find that your guy has a particular preference for you wearing red, for when you wear lipstick, or for high heels. Once you know this, you will then know how to cater for their tastes.
Mix it Up
The danger though is that too much of a good thing can still be bad news, even if you’re dressing exactly the way your partner likes you too. Over time, any look can get old if we see it every day, so it’s important to keep things fresh by occasionally mixing it up. Make sure you have a few different outfits that work in different ways, and try changing something drastic like your hair cut or your makeup style on a regular basis.
One thing that your man won’t have any idea about most likely is the quality of your makeup or your clothes. That said, they will still notice the difference, so even if you want to look for discount cosmetics make sure you’re still sticking to the good brands like Loreal and Revlon. Likewise with clothes, avoid shopping in charity stores and instead invest a little money in something nice. Your man might not think he appreciates it, but he’ll be able to tell you’ve put effort in and he’ll be grateful.
That of course means investing time as well – so don’t just get out of bed and leave your hair how it is. Invest the time to straighten it or try a nice style and your man will thank you.
At the same time though you also need to be yourself, and it’s not your job to cater to your man’s every whim. Do the things you know he likes, but only when they are compatible with what you like and what you feel comfortable in. Men find confidence incredibly attractive, so the most important thing is that you feel good in the way you look. Oh, and make sure he’s holding up his end of the bargain too!
Hi, I am Emily Kahn, a beauty and fashion blogger with SaleEvent.ca. We are one of the fastest growing affordable cosmetics store on the internet and sell all popular cosmetics brands.
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